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writes:about a week and a half ago, my girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me saying she wasnt happy and that she need some time to think about what she wants. she said that there were things that needed to change with us and me. nothing big or anything about me changing myself. we've both made the changes that we needed to make. and we've been talking everyday since the break-up, and the other day she asked me to come over to her house on this coming friday. she doesnt want to talk about us and getting back together when i go to her house. i told her that after 2 weeks of having her time to think, i deserve to know whats going to happen. she said she promses to tell me sunday. i love her. and she has told me a couple times during the time we've been broken up, that she misses me and still loves me. i want to wait for her, but i cant be dragged along forever. my question is, is she just messing with? is she trying to see how far i will go and how much control she has over me? or do you think that she really does still care and love me and she wants to get together? or does it sound like she just wants to be friends? and is it possible that really doesnt kno what she wants still, and i should wait on her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Give her until Sunday. If she still doesn't know by then (when she promised she would), I'd say she is just stringing you along to see how far she can take it. In that case, you have to decide whether you're going to continue letting her do that, or if you are going to tell her that it's time for the both of you to move on completely.
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