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writes:hey guys,I am 17 yo old and Bi-curious. A while ago my cousin and I masturbated together and this included doing it for each other. I thought it was great and at the time he enjoyed himself too. However, it has been some time since we did this and he doesnt want to do it anymore. Can anyone tell me what to do, how do i make him comfortable with it because he enjoyed himself last time and i want to do it with him again.
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 Sorry kiddo... you're gonna have to find someone else to play around with. I'm sure there are plenty of other guys around. You can't FORCE someone to do it... and pestering them will most likely just backfire and he'll end up outting you to the world... or something like that.
Seriously... try to find someone else. It's better for both of you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 August 2010):
 You need to respect that fact that he doesn't want to do it again. Sorry.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 August 2010):
 Sounds like HE'S no longer Bi-curious. Leave him alone.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 He doesn't want to do it anymore. So is there some reason you don't respect that? You sound selfish, actually, focused on the physical sensations rather than on the fact he's not comfortable doing this. Having an orgasm doesn't mean you are happy about what you did. In retrospect, he may be happy that you fooled around and that is bothering him.
My advice is to let it be, don't let your penis do your thinking for you. Work on respecting people's feelings a bit more, I know it's not a teenager's strong suit but you might as well start practicing empathy.
Take care.
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