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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for exactly nine days, and we've only known each other for a little bit over three weeks (24 days to be exact). I like him a lot,and I actually told him today that I spoke to my ex. When I spoke to my ex I felt good. I finally let go of him as a lover and opened up a door for us being friends. I previously posted about this,but anyway my boyfriend just told me he loves me. I kept asking other questions and using different words he can use to describe his feelings and he said it again. I didn't say it back, I do feel like I love him. But its more in a caring way. I don't think it has developed to that stage yet. Well at least I don't want it to. I feel like things are just going to fast,but the crazy thing about it is that I like the feeling. Its crazy but when he said that to me I wanted to say it back,and I know if I did I would of meant it too. But I just don't want to fall harder then I actually am. I don't want to say those three words because then it will actually become reality. Its so soon,but it feels so right. What I did today, was it wrong? It feels like when I with and think about him I'm in those romance novels,but my mind switches me back to reality. Is this too good to be true? I think I'm actually falling inlove with him! Or am I? I need help,I've never felt these feelings before and would like to know what is it...
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 personally i think thats wayyyyy too soon. I didn't tell my boyfriend i love him until we had been together 9months! and he didnt say it back for a couple of months after that. You still don't know everything about each other so i think you should wait. He'll understand if he does 'love you' and appreciate it more when you do say it because you will mean it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): When i fist met my now fiance I knew he was the one but he was alwasy the one saying 'i love you' I caid it in txts ot to his face. It took me a week or so but when I did I knew I was ready to say it and that I had realised that I was in love.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 24 days is way too soon to say I love you..You're justing getting to know each other! No you're not wrong for not saying it back, I wouldn't have. Let him know it's way too soon to say those words, don't say them unless you mean them because you take those words seriously, you want to take your time with this relationship and that you feel it is moving too fast. Only time will tell if he's the right one, for now go with your instinct and slow things down you're young you've got plenty of time.
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