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writes:People say that I should make new friends however I always fear that if I try and invite myself to things where I don't know people that well or go round to people's house just for a drink, they'll turn me down or reject me so I never just turn up at peoples houses or ask if i can come round if I haven't known them that long.I'm 22 and I feel I should not be in this situation, and I never had many friends at school. I can make friends, I'm just not confident putting myself out there once I am friends with them and going round to their hosue just for a chat.Can anyone give me advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, T@mara  +, writes (26 August 2010):
It has been reported that the only thing people won't forgive you for (in conversation) is if you were uninteresting. That being said, I can't think of many people who I find uninteresting, can you? Maybe try finding hobbies you enjoy that people will enjoy hearing about. I also am wondering if this would be a fear of people getting close to you and learning about who you are. A lot of people have this fear. I don't mean anything rude by asking that, but I think it would be helpful if you could explain why you don't feel comfortable around people once you have already made them your friend?
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (26 August 2010):
 okay well for starters, when you make friends you dont have to go round to their houses straight away, text, facebook each other!, go for drinks at the pub or nights out
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