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writes: I don't usually read into dreams, I've had a lot of nice dreams, but also unpleasant ones, like any other person. Thing is, last night I dreamed that my boyfriend was getting married, IN MY HOUSE, with another woman (she was brunette, but then she was blond). They were dressed as bride and groom and I walked out of my room to wish them 'Happy years together'. Then he came near me and hugged me and kissed me on my mouth. After that, we was looking at a photography with her, and kissing that photography. As for real life, we've been together for a year now and we plan on getting married next year and I'm 100% certain he wouldn't cheat on me. He loves me a lot and I love him and we have an enviable sexual and emotional communication. Why did I dream about this? Is it just a simple dream and I shouldn't read into it or should I be causcious from now on?
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (25 August 2010):
i don't think you should read into it. I had a dream the other week that my boyfriend slept with his ex, got her pregnant but i still stayed with him and when she had the baby he was so happy and wanted me to see it but i just couldn't and ran away crying. I though this was a weird dream but i'm not reading anything into it because i know it wouldn't happen :)
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (25 August 2010):
FluffyPie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCaringGuy-- Yeah, that would definitely be something stupid. I don't usually coordinate my life according to dreams, because even I think that dreams are irrelevant in a person's life. But this one seemed creepy. Indeed, I should carry on with my daily life. Thanks :)
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (25 August 2010):
FluffyPie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, Phoebe Halliwell. I guess you're right... Thanks for reassuring me :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 August 2010):
It means nothing at all. Forget it. You don't want to be known as someone who wrecked a relationship and became paranoid over something that happened in a dream. It means nothing.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (25 August 2010):
Hey :)
I definitely wouldn't read anything into it. We have several dreams every night that, in the morning when we try to remember what we dreamt about, get squished into one big, confusing mess!
I wouldn't worry at all, maybe tell him about the dream so you can laugh about it together. It doesn't mean anything, what we dream about it completely random. The fact you dreamt about a wedding is natural because you're planning to get married next year, it's a big thing in your life that'll be on your mind a lot, so you're likely to dream about it.
Just have faith in your guy, and don't let a dream spoil the lovely future you'll have together :) Enjoy life with each other, don't let that dream hold you back.
Good luck!
xxx
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (25 August 2010):
Dreams aren't always what they seem. Dreaming about him getting married to another woman doesn't mean that your subconscious thinks he will cheat on you.
I hope that helps.
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