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writes:Hi. I've used this site once before and got some great advice.Now; I need some more. Two nights ago, I met a guy at a club who I really liked. We got on really well and had loads of fun. The only thing is....he lives in Wales and I live in Scotland! We met up again last night, he introduced me to his friends and we hugged and kissed a lot, but didn't have sex because he was sharing an apartment with his friends parents. Ah!The problem......is this. I haven't gone out with anyone for a while and find it hard to make connections with people but with him, it was just so easy! It felt like we were on the same wavelength about almost everything and had such a great connection. I told him I wanted to come up and see him in Cardiff and he said I should. But was this 'connection' all because we were both drunk? Should I try to make something of it, or....should I forget about him?What do you think? Was he being sincere when i told me he liked me, or was it just a holiday fling for him?thanks
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 So you were never alone with him and no phone calls, texts nothing? Then yeah it was just a drunken connection. It sounds like he doesn't want to take it any further because he would be keeping in contact and asking you to come out and see him. There would be some sort of effort on hie part. But if you're seeing nada, sorry my dear. I will say drunken connections can be fun, but you never know where you stand the next day or will it go any further? This is why you can't really make a relationship with someone that you met from a bar/club.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey tennisstar. We've both got eachother's numbers and actually met twice. I spent a wonderful 6 hours with him and his friends. After that- I suggested going over to Cardiff.
The real trouble now I suppose is trying to keep in contact. :(
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
Do tread lightly on this one. Once, I was piss drunk and this rather cute guy was hitting on me, we danced and chatted exchanged numbers. My friends wanted to leave for IHOP..we texted back in forth the rest of the night. Next day I woke up and he sent me a text saying who's this? I forgot to put his name in my phone, oops. If you exchanged numbers then I would call first to see if he remembers you then, talk about coming to visit. However, if you guys did exchange numbers has he texted or called? Or do you just have his?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 August 2010):
Well you won't know unless you follow it all up. He said come to Cardiff, so talk to him and say you'd like to meet again. See what happens. You won't know anything until you follow it up and see where it leads.
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