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I don't want my crushes besfriend to think I'm into her!

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Question - (25 August 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *nternet_guy writes:

so my crush's best friend stared at me and i just looked away ..did i do anything wrong?

so my crush's best friend saw me and i saw her ,even though i didn't recognize her at first,i just looked away immediately by avoiding her as i was on fone.. and my crush didn't show up for past 2 days since that day,,so did i just do anything wrong,i just didn't want her best friend to think that i am in to her rather than her best friend

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A male reader, internet_guy United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

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next time i am gonna ask if i dun see my crush

and her best friend didnt reconize me at first,as she didnt see me closer anytime before,,so i just introduced myself and made her feel comfortable arnd me , i didnt want to ask every detail of my crush ,so i just wanna see my crush and see how she behaves when she sees me again knowing the fact i was asking abt her and then think abt moving forward or drop it

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntTrue if you hang around her house you'll look like a creep..why don't you get your crush's number from her best friend? Give her a call, see how she's doing and ask her out...you're prolonging the inevitable.

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A male reader, internet_guy United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

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hey tennistar i wanna talk to my crush,but thing is i dont see her much these days and i dont wanna keep hanging arnd her house to get hold of her,i dont want myself to look like a stalker or desperate guy and

her bestfriend kinda looks out for her,she keeps updating abt my presence ,wether i am looking at my crush or not etc

so i felt atleast getting in touch with her bestfriend is good way to start as she knows that we like each other

and next time i see these both,it wont be akward to start conversation with my crush as i already know her best friend

i just want to get closer to my crush and right now only her best friend is the way

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A male reader, internet_guy United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

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sorry for the mistake "so we talked arnd 10 minutes and i gave a hint that i am interested in my crush"

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou need to talk to your crush instead of her best friend...chances are if the best friend likes you then nothing is getting back to your crush of your conversation. However, if she is a good friend then she is repeating this information back to your crush. This guy likes you, blah, blah, do you like him, well he hasn't approached you yet is what's being said. Stop talking to the best friend and seeing if it will get back to your crush you're a little old for that...You're going to have to stop playing these waiting games and go talk to her. That's most likely what she's waiting for.

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A male reader, internet_guy United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

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yes my crush knows i am interested in her,,,i wanna talk to her as the awkward silence between us is so frustrating ,its hard for me to get hold of my crush as i am not able to see her regularly due to busy schedule

so today i talked to her best friend for first time and she was feeling shy and nervous,i mean i was talking to her just like i talk to a person i know,so i just introduced myself to her and made her feel comfortable with me first ,,so we talked arnd 10 minutes and i gave a hint that i am interested in her crush

so i know both r pretty close,so what would she be saying abt me to my crush?

coz still i am not able to see my crush after talking to her best friend,,,so do i neeed to have more patience for her to show up or just forget and move on?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (25 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntDoes your crush even know that you like her? I think you're looking into too much or that her best friend could be into you and your crush is respecting her. It was a look, it didn't mean anything.

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