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writes:Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from guys out there, about cleavage-enhacing bras. I normally wear a padded, water-filled bra when I go out, which makes my breasts look one cup size bigger than they are...so I've been doing this whilst dating a guy, and now I'm freaking out because I'm staying at his place next week, it'll be the first time we sleep together, and I'm worried he's going to be disappointed with my actual breast size! So I'm wondering-do guys like cleavage-enhancing bras? Do they feel cheated or annoyed when they find out a girl's true breast size if she's been wearing one? Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): As a guy who is not into breast size too much, I will say that I wouldn't be dissapointed or feel jipped. What WOULD concern me, is if a woman did drastic things to make her breasts seem significantly larger. I would worry about her self esteem. I am not a fan of implants for this reason. To me, they scream insecurity. That'd be like me getting a penis implant.
Push up bras are hot, and most guys know smaller women buy them to look bigger. If a guy has got you into bed, he's already into what you have. AS long as you know how to use your body and please him, 90% of guys wont care. It's a LOT like penis size...except I think most women would run the other way if a guy stuffed his pants. But for women, push ups or stuffing is normal and commonly accepted by us guys.
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (26 August 2010):
Hi,
For me its whats in her head that counts...and what shes like as a person.
I have worked with many Page 3 girls/models & other women with "perfect bodies" ....& couldnt believe how dense many of them were (& unattractive without the make up /air brushing).
Needless to say that I didnt find them at all attractive. They were surprised when I turned down offers from them...Ahmen!!. ;)....lol
I prefer women with small breasts....more than a handful is a waste...(apologies to the larger breasted women out there)
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reader, daletom  +, writes (26 August 2010):
I have been married to a small-busted woman for over 30 years. I knew what was (and wasn't) there before we were engaged, before we were married, and before we started having sex (in that order). It was VERY NICE when she was pregnant, or breast feeding, and ballooned out to almost a C-cup! Let me tell you . . . there isn't any part of her body that's more important for my sexual enjoyment than what's between her ears!
Some guys will be at least a little disappointed - some may have already guessed - and it may or may not be significant to them. He might accept it as something you do to enhance your appearance, boost your self image, etc. Or, he may wonder what else that you've presented about yourself has been "artificially enhanced".
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): I am a 15yo male and i HATE thoes bras boys like natural breast not some make breast with a specal bra or implants(most implants u can tell)
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 If it's only one cup size I wouldn't worry about it.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 What's your cup size? Most women wear bust enhancing bras anyway unless they are truly blessed in that department. I suggest staying away from this water ones, my cousin's popped in public, so she had one deflated wet boob. Don't worry about your boobs, as long as they're all natural then who cares? I've been told a handful is a enough to satisfy them..besides the butt is the new boobs..all the guys are about that rear!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 August 2010):
Most guys won't even notice. You don't need to worry at all. He'd be a pretty worthless guy if he just measured you on your breasts and nothing else. Relax.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 Some guys will feel cheated, and some won't. In my opinion it's a pretty shallow guy who'd feel cheated that a girl was wearing a push-up bra and it turns out her boobs are real rather than silicone perky.
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