A
male
age
30-35,
*tark
writes:hi..the problem starts way early wid my ex....we were so great together....were no one was in our life....but suddenly her frnd comes and butts in...his actions and words show that he likes her...but she says he doesnt....we have had constant fights about him ..that she must stop talking to him cuz its makin me insane....but one day....i found them together with other frnds....i got so furious cuz we agreed that she is gonna get him out of her life gradually...so seeing him with her drove me insane...plus that she told me that he is gonna give her a ride home...while i could do that wid my car....so i went mad...and i thought she didnt respect meor my feelings at all..so i told her i wont continue and am breakin up.....but i am still in love with her...i told her that i was mad and i wasnt aware of the decision i took...now she talks to me ina very ugly way,,closing conversations...and she needs to see that i changed so she would give me a second chance....but even if i have changed the me goin mad part.....i still need to see that guy her frnd...disappear i really hate him..and i know that he likes her:S:S:S idk wat to do and i really need suggestions and advice
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 you need to trust her mate. if she didn't wanna be with you...she wouldn't ok. (unless she's one of those kinda girls)... she clearly loves you and wants you to trust her. you can't get rid of her friends as much as you might want to...trust me i know! you can voice (calmly) what your feeling and you don't have to like him or trust this guy...but you need to trust your girlfriend that she loves you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you. you can tell her you dont feel comfortable with him and her driving in the car together alone and she should understand that...but you need to realize that going about it in an angry manner doesn't get anyone anywhere and will cause alot of fights between you to. you have to be calm about it..as much as you wanna yell and scream and 'kill' the guy...you can't. its her mate. you have to talk to her. tell her you've changed...sayyyyy that you trust her with your heart because you love her so much and just want a second chance. that she doesn't have to give up her friendship with the guy but you would feel more comfortable with them not being alone together and be calm when your talking to her. good luck i hope this helps a little
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