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writes:He is in his early 50s she in her late 40s and married to each other. His ex cheated on him with several men, her ex was very abusive! They both work in manufacturing, different shifts and not for the same company. He has a medical condition and tells her he won't be around much longer! He told her she will get everything after he dies! He is functional and works 40 hours a week. He makes two thirds of their combined annual income. He is very much in control! About a year ago he made a change in his appearance! He dyed his hair and lost weight! She is ok with the hair but is concerned about his weight loss due to his medical condition! He has his own personal credit cards and she is not allowed to see the monthly statements! He tells her it's an invasion of his privacy! She is not allowed to see his 401k account either! He has made a habit of leaving his credit cards on top of the bedroom dresser! A few months ago they had problems meeting the monthly bills! He told her somebody broke into the apartment and stole one of his credit card numbers, not the card! He told her the theif went out and charged a lap computer on his card! He is the only one that has ever complaint of a break-in at this apt. complex! He has done this several times before and the landlord keeps them on as long as they pay their rent! The landlord has replaced their door locks three times before! His job is only five minutes away but he leaves home one hour and sometimes one and a half hour before punch in time! He tells her he can't sleep and he has got to go! She tells him, just lay in bed with me! Are these signs of a cheating husband and if they are, why is she so blind not to see what is going on? Is she going through another abusive relationship? My concern is for her well being and I hope she wakes up soon! I need advise, Thank you all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): I have a friend who was in a relationship with someone for 10 years and never wanted to believe he was cheating on her. Sometimes, it is hard to believe that it is really happening to you. She should possibly start to realize that she has all the power to get all the information she needs, I would go and talk to an attorney and find out what my rights are and then do what the attorney advises her to do.
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