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writes:I was with my ex boyfriend for 15 months i always used to finish him because i was scared of getting hurt because of my past relationships, he used to run back everytime an we would be fine the next day.. He used to say he would never let me go i mean to much to him. He started going out with his old friends this one time when we finished. This time it was him who wanted to end it. I was heartbroke and left his house in a state he came runnin after me sayin he still loved me. I got on the bus an met my mates in town i was in a state. I wouldnt stop phonin an textin him after that an he was always checking my facebook and would argue with me when i added lads so i knew he still cared and was hurt. I would do anything for him back now.. we were on facebook the other day and had a big arguement he called me for everything an said i meant nothin to him anymore an i said horrible stuff back i deleted him off facebook and then the next day after we had both calmed down i tryed to add him back an he ignored me. I can still see his wall an he can see mine.. On his statutes it looks like hes not botherd while everything i do he is always on my mind :( help me am depressed
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (22 August 2010):
i couldnt have used better words or have said it better than answerfromtheheart unfortunetly im going through the same thing but i have a baby with so its so hard to let go but i know i must and u should too lets hope life brings us happiness and luck
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (21 August 2010):
 You have a lesson to learn from this. You kept pushing him away because you were scared of getting hurt. Then one day he got tired of being pushed away and so he left. If he doesn't want to come back and he is ignoring you, let him go. But make sure you learn the lesson. You cannot love someone until you learn that loving can be painful at times, but that's ok, because there are great rewards there too. Time will heal. Be strong and get through this. If he truly loves you and comes back, give him another chance and allow yourself to love without fear. Don't run after him, give him space away from you to figure out what he wants. If he wants you, he will come back and then you can keep building your relationship to be stronger than it ever was. If he doesn't come back, let him go. I believe you will find someone else you will fall in love with, just be open and don't be afraid.
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