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41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:I miss my ex.Our relationship was good - he always called, we hung out alot and never flaked but at the end he flaked and never even apologized for flaking, why he did it and didnt return my calls after a handful of calls/emails from me including an email where i poured out my feelings..saying if he wanted to break up he shouldve said so/hes a coward, selfish/he shouldve told me what was up no matter what it was..- he didnt return my calls for 3-4 days (unlike him) but when he read the emotional email i wrote he wrote back angrily saying that i didnt know what he had been upto/hes been really busy, didnt appreciate my weird msgs/emails and later ended the email w/ an fyi next time chill out.Which made me wonder..next time..WTF? Overall he was angry.I followed up w/ an apology email - apologizing for the name calling and explaining why i freaked out (I hate flakes and I was originally concerned w/ what was goin on but he ignored me).I dont want us to be on bad terms.. i mentioned this aswell but .. i really miss him.. i occassionally dream about him and it just bothers me.. i want to pick up the phone and see how hes doing etc. I generally broke off our relationship via voicemail before the emotional email..It's been 2 wks since he's emailed/spoken to me.but anyway..i dont expect us to get back together..but i want us to be talking. I thought about emailing him for his bday, wishing him well (2 wks from now).I know hes currently goin thru a custody battle/he lives w/ his mom and is tryin to move out/get a car.. - i dont want to call the house cause its the house phone/he doesnt have a cell..so i thought about a bday email aswell as seeing how hes doin etc. I figured if he was tryin to break up w/ me, hates me or anything bad like that..then why did he write me back angrily??..seems he wouldve just continued to ignore me like he was and wouldve ignored my emotional email..
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 August 2010):
 "I know hes currently goin thru a custody battle/he lives w/ his mom and is tryin to move out/get a car.. - i dont want to call the house cause its the house phone/he doesnt have a cell.."
Is he really worth all the stress... or was it just that good?
look for what ever reason he doesnt want to deal with you... its probably has something to do with he doesnt have anything but problems which leads to depresion among other things and having a GF seems pointless when you dont have a car a house etc its just not kool... you get the car the job the crib then the chick...
let the guy go hes not ready for a relationship stop being another thorn in his life... look what he did was jacked up i agree... but thats life let this guy go... next time invest in a relationship that has some potential...
Im not saying only date a guy who has it all but as a man im saying men need to have priorities instead of chasing tail and making babies when they dont have a dime they need to be more productive and get an education.
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