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writes:I talked to this guy for a little while though we were not together together we had a horrible break up with a lot of unsettled emotions on my side of things and he started treating me really bad and we stopped talking to each other mutually. After a couple months I moved on but I still wanted him as a friend cause we had been really close. I knew he may not want to talk to me again so I sent him an email saying that I was sorry for what had happened and the part I had played in it and that I was there for him and if he didn't want to contact me that was ok but if he did want to I gave him my number.I didn't contact him again after this until he contacted me.he called me but at the time I couldn't talk and my phone was breaking up so I asked him if I could give him a call back later. He said yeah. Then when I called back he didn't answer and the last time he texted me he pretty much told me he never wanted to talk with me again. And I just don't get it. I haven't contacted him again since cause i know if he doesn't want to talk then that's just how it is. Why would he call me if he didn't want to talk to me? And is there any chance we will be friends again or should I just let go of any hope of speaking to him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): Maybe he called you to tell you that he didn't want to have contact. I know that might sound a bit odd, but he may have just been wanting to give you a response to your e-mail. Or he might have felt annoyed when you could not talk to him due to your phone breaking up, and he decided to just forget it. Either way, it doesn't sound good to me. It sounds like he is still holding negative feelings if he is being like this. I think it would be best to just let him go. You have said what you wanted to say in your e-mail, there is really nothing else you can do. Sometimes it just doesn't work out, even as friends, and this may be one of those cases.
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