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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: So there's this guy that is new to our school. I just met him and I find him really nice and cute. He makes me smile all the time. We're just getting to know each other and we talk a lot about random things. He said I'm a sweet nice girl. I tell him that hes really cute. I really think he is. Sometimes I feel that he does notice me but sometimes I feel like theres something different about me that he doesn't want to get to know or at least be with. I get really sad. I guess he just wants to be friends or hes trying to prevent me from liking him. He doesn't know that I like him and I feel that if i did, he wouldn't feel the same. Since he's new, I told him that I would be there for him no matter what. I don't know what I should do. I always find him looking at me, smiling. How do I know if he really notices me the same way I notice him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Girl, if we all knew how to find out if a guy likes us back, we'd all fall in love and live happily ever after. But after all, we're not psychic! I know exactly how you're feeling and I wish I could give you decent advice but the problem is that I'm in exactly the same position as you! This guy sounds really nice and I would urge you not to give up on him, cause miracles really do happen. Boys are impossible, you never know what's going on in their heads, you just gotta hope for the best! Even if he doesn't fancy you, that doesn't mean he doesn't notice you... if he smiles at you then that's a good thing because you know for a second that you crossed his mind.
You have to keep your chin up and smile back. Believe me, anything can happen.
Good luck!
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