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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now and he really wants to snog me, but i have never snogged before, i don't know what to do. people say put your hand down their pants onto their arse, open you mouths link tounges and go from there but i just don't think i can bring myself to do it, what should i do.? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): Snog him, dammit. 7 months is long time to wait. You're scared, it's something new, but clearly this dude cares about you. This isn't a two week (or two hour) courtship. Explore and enjoy your sexuality -- you're only young once. You don't know what you're missing. Note: I am NOT staying boffing guys you meet at bars or casually having sex, not at all. But don't avoid a good snog with someone good becuase you're too scared. People will say, "Oh, wait 'til it feels right for you." However, you sound like you'll be 50 years old before you think might get over feeling scared about it. Point those toes to the ceiling, and he'll gratefully do the rest. It might be a little ackward at first, and it gets even better over time; but enjoy the journey of your sexual awakening with someone who cares about you, someone you care about, etc. You'll thank me in the morning.
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