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Does he just need time to process things?

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Question - (21 August 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Long story, but here it goes... I have been friends with this guy for about 5 years now, and I consider him to be one of my best, most dependent guy friends that I have.

About a week ago, he had texted out of the blue and we had got to talking about us. Somehow in the middle of the conversation I had told him how I felt about him, and that I love him. Before I had told him how I felt, he had said something about "never having another love like me," or something along those lines (the whole discussion we had is a big blur right now.)

Well after I had laid everything out, he suddenly became weird and said that there is no point in trying to make anything work since he is leaving soon to go to school. I agreed. About two days before he left, we had hung out and we were very affectionate towards each other (holding hands, kissing, etc.) I believe he even cried when he said goodbye to me.

Now that he's gone I've barely heard from him. I'm always the one that seems to be initiating the conversations between us and even then, I feel like he's not really paying attention to me and that talking feels forced. Is he just letting everything process? My feelings are genuine for this guy and I believe in my heart, he could be the one.

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