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writes:Hello! My problem is, I am in a relationship which isn't actually a relationship. It started off when the guy told me that he wants us to be together now, but he won't be able to offer me any future. (Nowadays we are in different continents) He is a nice guy and I like him, but still, with time, as I could see the relationship was only painful, i tried breaking up. But he somehow stops it. He doesn't want to be with me long term, but he doesn't let me break up too. Sometimes he disappears for days and when he comes back he is all nice and stuff, just that all I am doing is either waiting for him, or making him happy by not talking about it when he comes back. I can not know whats on his mind because he only opens up when i stress him a little, and I hate doing that. Most of the days, I am just unhappy. Is there any easy way to talk to a guy who is not very fond of talking? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot :) The problem is just that, we have been very good friends and I never wanted to spoil the friendship, and this has somehow effected what we had for real. Its going to be difficult but I guess the best option I have is to stay away, because talking is not good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): This relationship was like mine and it will not be pleasant,go find a guy who wants the same as you a future together i did
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): You should break up with this man. If hes gone most of the time, doesnt talk to you, and even says that you wont be in a long-term relationship/have a future then whats the point? I think that maybe he sees you as a fling, while you are trying to make it work and turn it into a relationship. Trust me, you're just wasting you're time on this man while there are other men out there waiting for you that are willing to actually commit and be in a real relationship. I wish you the very best of luck.:]
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