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writes:I have been with my husband for probley 18 yrs. an have been married for 5 of those years and have 2 kids a 15 yr. old and a 13 yr.old. during this time he has had 2 affairs that i know of an 1 of the 2 has resulted in a child being born he lives for his getting on the computer and looking at the porn sites, we have had several arguments over this he gets mad very easily over it, he shows no affection towards me at all anymore he doesn't kiss me he doesn't hug me doesn't volunteerly tell me he loves me nothing I have tried everything I have all but beg him for attention, as for sex it's an everyday thing or every other day thing but even during sex he really shows no affection then either alot of times i wake up to him trying to have sex with me while I am sleeping I need some answers I am starving for some affection I need to know if he really loves me or if he is just here for a place to live and for sex.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (21 August 2010):
 Well, from what I can tell, your husband has a deformed view towards reality. Spending time on porn sites, masturbating probably to some artificial boobs, when having a caring wife, who, aside sex, offers love too, it's the most pathetic behavior for a mature person. He's selfish and mean, and I really really admire you how you put up with him after he's been cheating on you. Unfortunately, I see a lot of women in this situation, living sad in this compliance, just because there are kids in the middle. Send him away, or take the kids and leave. I know it sounds easy to give advice, but for once, think about yourself: do you want to get old next to this disrespectful man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): Hun, you know the answer to your question aleady. This man neither loves or cares for you. I think you need to make a hard decision and leave him. You may not want to do this but why stay in this abusive marriage. This man is using you, abusing you and you are throwing your life on a worthless man, who has proven unworthy over time. Plse love yourself enough to make a life for yourself.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 I'm sorry to say this but he definitely feels nothing towards you. Leave him, find someone better who will take care of you and your children loyally and with love.
I hope that helps.
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