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writes:Need both guy/girls views…Ok so my deal in a nutshell. I was with my girl the other day and we hadn’t seen each other in a couple of months. Things started to heat up pretty quick and we ended up on the bed. It was around 15-25 min’s when she had her hand around my lower stomach and lower back when I experienced that feeling. I know I jumped the gun and went into way to fast. It happened I tried to clean up a little but were at function and prolly should of changed/showered. So needless to say it was a little embarrassing. Friends and family. Anyways after this incident it’s basically turned into sponge kissing contest with my girl. I’ve told her Im ok with doing more than kissing, we dry hump a lil, but her hands r glued to my shoulders. I understand why shes being cautious, but we’ve done more(and I haven’t had this problem in the past). I feel she is making a decision for me that that’s how far I want to go or can control. It was accident but she won’t move any further. I’m ok with kissing but im not gonna just settle for it. I’ve started avoiding alone time with her and just hanging out publicly. We kiss still but those thoughts in the back of my mind. I know she knows that I would like more but it is what it is. I’ve asked her if she’s ok with it but I feel like something is missing between the two of us. Is she freaking because it happen? Idk what do you guys/gals think? I like her and I understand why she’s being this way.. What should I do? I don’t want to sound like a prude by continuing to tell her that I want more but she’s not giving it. I don’t want to seem like im the only one trying things while she sits on my shoulders.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): She is totally freaking out but at this point if you want to keep her you need to respect that a bit. Do the dry hump thing make sure she is wearing something really light like leggings or something like that so you are protected but can have a great experience. good luck...,
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