Am I making the right decision in this on/off relationship?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I've been going out with this boy on and off for about a year. when i say on and off, i mean it. he dumped me about 4 times (i dumped him once because i thought he had been cheating on me, big mistake, he hadnt been). but then every time he would come back to me saying he was so stupid and really hoped that we could go out again. whenever i went out with another guy, if he dumped me, that was it. i wouldnt ever go out with him again. but the crazy thing is, everytime he asked me out, i would say yes. my friends think im mad- sometimes i start to think i am- but i still love him. ive been keeping this to myself, all the confusion over why i sasid yes, and why i still loved him, so i just want to get someone elses opinion, if im making the right decision. im so confused. i want to talk it through with the boy, but i just cant, i dont think he would understand. please help!

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