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writes:Me and my bf broke up 6 days ago and we were together for 2 years!. Im heartbroken to say the least. we didnt talk until I texted him yesterday just saying hi. He immediately got defensive and thought i was trying to get back together when all i said was hey how are you. it hurt alot the way he talked to me when i didnt do anything. we broke up because we were bickering too much other than that we were great for each other. Last year he did the same thing, we broke up he was mad, didnt talk and wanted me back a month later. Why is he acting like this?and When is he going to realize what he lost, because I know he will! not to be cocky but im an amazing gf and i pretty and id do anything for him. and will he ever come back?How do guys act during a breakup and what do they think about? do they miss us? do they think about all the things us girls think about?
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reader, Blix  +, writes (21 August 2010):
If you were "bickering all the time" then that is your answer. That is what he is thinking about now.
You need to ask why you two were bickering. How do those sessions of bickering start? If it was him picking the issues then maybe he was trying to push you away. Maybe he just isn't ready to be sharing his life with anyone, esp. if he is young like 20.
If it was you starting it, then thats different. Why are you "pushing his buttons"? Wasn't he showing enough interest in you, or maybe not showing you he loves you?
Bickering more than once a week can be enough to drive people away unless there is a point to it and it can be resolved or at least worked on, but so often it is just things that don't really matter, one of you was just starting a fight, pushing buttons.
So, who was it that starts those sessions of bickering?
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reader, gaitondelaude  +, writes (21 August 2010):
Hello,as i can tell guys take longer to recover than woman if they are dumped,this is what I always see with my friends, but also they are quick to look around for something new for rebound or entertainment, so its clear that hes recovered and now is trying to guage your interest, what will happen now is that if you show more interest he will eventually say yes if you want to get back. But note that he will be the one this time maybe to break up after he is done with you or finds something better,so move on..hope this helps as I myself m not or was not in a good relationship till now..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): Hello!!
Well, I was heartbroken too a couple months ago. I am feeling better right now though. Its been like 4 months since we are not together anymore....i still want to talk to him but i dont think that i want our relation to be the way it was before...I have the exact same questions that you have, indeed.
I would also say dont go back with him anymore....you deserve better! Be strong. Please PLEASE please let me know how everything goes..if you need to talk or something...i am here to help you get through...BE STRONG!!
Unfortunately, I also want to know if he will ever come back... :(
Take care!! :)
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