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female
age
36-40,
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writes:I have a problem. i think im totally in love with my best friend. The problem is that my best frient is a girl. I'm totally attracted to guys, that i know for sure, but at this moment im so turned on by my friend. And i know that should anything happen she won't freak out cause shes very open minded. i only recently started feeling like this. Why do i feel so strongly attracted to her? And What does this make me... gay, bi or just confused?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): Everyone goes through a stage where they question their sexuality. And you also said that that you were so turned on by her "at this moment" so it could be a stage. It usually happens to teenagers but you are still young so you could be going through it now. But are you attracted to her physically or emotionally? You also say that you are attracted to men as well, so you could be bi-sexual or just curious. If you say that if anything were to happen between the two of you that it would be ok because shes very open-minded, then maybe you should try having a relationship with her, or just experiment. Maybe you are attracted to her because you know her so well and find her to be a beautiful person inside and out. I wish you the best of luck.:]
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