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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hello fellows, i would appreciate your sincere advices. so i met a guy 6 months back , we dated for a couple of months then he moved to another country and started acting funny , vanishing sometimes reappearing a week later and so on, i decided to put an end to it , but a month later he called asking and urging for another chance and that he wants to meet me in maldives , i accepted as a last chance and was clear about looking for a serious long term relation he said he wanted the same and we met he proposed getting me a nice plain ring and said he'll come to my country and meet my parents in2 months with his folks. while there, he used my laptop cause he forgot his back home, everything was great . i came back to my country and when i first started my computer i had a message alert in the small icon down the page i opened it and it was his page somehow don't ask me how it happened, the message was from a girl thanking him for his party and accepting his invitation to dinner 2 days later. i didn't like the vibe of the message (i never invaded anyone's privacy before but that was my only chance to see if the guy is faithful) i looked into his messages and realized that every girl he meets at a party or through friends he invites her he adds her on facebook and invites her for drinks and dinner or to walk at night in central park, and that was during the time he was asking for a chance and even after we got back together. my question dear friends is that normal? is he being just friendly with those girls or is it too much? plz guys and girls give me your honest opinion as i don't want to get hurt again.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (21 August 2010):
I think this guy is eating pizza, and it's not made from your oven, so it's best if you get rid of him as soon as possible. Dump him, he dosen't sound like a faithfull man.
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