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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex said that he didnt like me not talking to him, so I told him a big secret and he got mad that i didnt tell him before hand, then went on about me not trying to befriend his mates, then ended by saying he felt pressured. So now I have left him to cool down after he could of been having a ruff week, apologised to his friends asking them if they will come to an ice breaking get together at a local bar. I told him I may pop round monday to pick up my stuff, but wondering whether I should wait it out longer, see if he gets in contact with me instead. I love him madly, but not sure if I am doing the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): I don't like it, but its true; men are better when left alone. It is in a mans nature to want to be not bothered or pressured, this could come in form of constant texts or calls or contact of any kind. So yes, leave him be. I know how hard it is, i know how much you want to just contact them because you miss them, or your anxious etc, but i think you have to try and resist. Women are much more about resolving things, by talking and communicating constantly, this is their nature, so thats why it's hard for men and women because of course their very different but this is one area where it can really cause issues. So take my advice because you can't really go wrong i hope.
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