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writes:hello i need help,i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time now i reguarly see him and kiss and stuff and our parents and everyone are ok with that.we were talking once about safe sex and stuff so a few weeks later we gave it a go it wasnt any of our first times so we knew what we were doing so the night we did it we made sure our parents we out(we were at mine soo i made sure they were out)anyway we did it and he had a condom and everything and it was going great until we got dressed and had a breakhe said that it was good so we did it again the same night but the second time he was different and i didnt feel safe he was touching my boobs in a different way and licking my downstairs area i was scared and worried but i didnt want to say anything so i played along with it that night.but thats not the main problem really that night i didnt feel safe but we love eachother and i know i can trust him but now i know i can handle that sort of thing but know i think im a lesbian and one night at a club i got drunk i wasnt with freinds i just wanted a good night out but i was at a clucb and got really drunk i ended up making out with this hot qirl we went back to hers and had sex she was really good and got right in there and she had all sorts of sex toys and we now tie eachother up and play around her apartment naked and lingerie eachother and stuff but i really like her and we are very seriors but i dont know how to tell my boyfriend that im a lesbian i was thinking of having a threesome and then i can still touch both of them cos i love them both but im defonaitly a lesbian but i dont know how to tell my boyfriend so please please help thank you for reading my story
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Maybe you should just break up with him and not mention the fact that you like girls. That could possibly make him feel like less of a man. I would only suggest that because I am a true dyke and would love to hurt a mans feelings, but you guys seem to be young and that would be cruel. So break it to him easy. But be sure that women are really what you want first. You could be messing up something good. Good luck!
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (21 August 2010):
I would suggest that u could possibly wait for your relationship with you're boyfriend to run it's natural course or if you think that may take too long then you could break up with him and say you want or need different things or that it's not working, but that's if you want to be with the girl. The threesome idea is odd but not inaccurate but be aware that most guys go along with it for an ego boost as it is most guys biggest dreams but maybe after or before he may be left with the impression that you're a lesbian or atleast bisexual and this may unsettle him a bit maybe. I have a friend who is a bisexual and when she wanted to be with a girl when already with a guy she just told him straight I can't say if he took it well but he did not take it too badly either.
I hope this helps
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