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writes:Hello, My name is Andrea I am 20 yrs old and currently feeling deppressed. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for almost 2yrs (On October) And recently broke up 3 weeks ago this is my story. We have been on and off. He is in Canada because of work, I'm in the U.S because of school. I love him still with all my heart and soul. I have done everything I could to be the best girlfriend ever but nothing worked. I am pretty much used to him dumping me, but then we get back together. The thing is 3 weeks ago he went to a concert and we were fine we just had gotten back together and he told me he missed me, he loves me, he wants a family, he was going to change etc etc... but barely a week after we got back together he hooked up with a girl and dumped me for her!!! After a week!! I don't understand why? I am very confused. I know he's still with her its been 3 weeks. He is or was the love of my life, but I don't think were getting back this time. He is with her even though she's ugly and fat so I don't understand. But how can I move on and get over this? He checks my FB page to check up on me even though he's not on my friends list :/ and he calls me blocked! He also goes on MySpace to check if I'm online. The girl he's with lives 6hrs away from him and she drives to go see him, and seems like she's really into him, but he shows little affection. I don't know what to do please help! I want to move on and be Happy!!! I don't desrve this.
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reader, Waiting for an angel +, writes (22 August 2010):
im sorry to say this but it seems like he doesnt care for you and you must move on im sure you'll find someone who truly loves you and wont leave you. unfortunetly we often love people that dont love us and its painful and difficult to move on but its necessary. i know easier said than done but i wish you luck
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 no you don't.
he doesn't deserve you either. so you need to delete EVERYTHING you have of him...number, throw out pictures of you two, make memories where the old ones used to be, spend time with friends, try and not to be alone so much (but its also good sometimes to) write a diary about how your feeling, talk to people you trust, spend time with family, make memories, put effort into something you love, start up something new eg. sewing, cooking, tennis etc. (find a new hobby) just try and live everyday as if it really is your last. i know its hard i really do because me and my ex...we only went out for 3 months! but i felt exactly as you do now and i still do and that was 4 months ago. but he has a new girlfriend. no matter her looks you need to realize he's moved on. even if she is fat and ugly. you can't make up his mind for him. it sucks soooo much. but its life. and you've hopefully learnt from it. but i dont care if he comes begging to take you back on his hands and knees, or sends you flowers and chocolates..dont you dare put yourself down that road again. because it will most likely happen all over again. and you dont want this feeling twice in a row and probably more upsetting next time do you? cut off everything about him dont talk to him and it will be a lot easier to move on. im trying and you will fail sometimes but as long as you tell yourself you deserve so much better. thats what you will start to believe. everytime yu wanna talk to him or something like that...have a friend that you can text instead. and delete his number and dont re add it if you remember it off by heart! i hope this helps. goodluck darling.
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