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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: me and boyfriend sometimes have oral sex. when he cums in my mouth the next day my body always hurts or my stomache hurts. why is that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno.... thats not my real age. sorry im 19.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (15 August 2010):
a) If that's your real age you should not be giving blowjobs.
b) If you find it doesn't agree with you, don't swallow
c) If you really want to swallow you're going to have to learn to love it, like I do. Look forward to it as something you want in your mouth rather than as an unpleasant byproduct of sexual activity. If that doesn't work, refer to point "b" above.
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reader, veronika +, writes (15 August 2010):
You don't have to swallow if you don't want to. Don't swallow if it makes you feel sick.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (15 August 2010):
Well, don't swallow anymore, it's obvious it doesn't make you comfortable.
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reader, sorceedea +, writes (15 August 2010):
It might be a psychological problem. Maybe something happened to you when you were young and don't even know it or remember. Past traumas can have a major affect and impact in one's current life and future. Depending on how intense that trauma was. As a child, it has such a great impact mos people don't even know it. I can't give my bf head as much as I'd love to because i know it's something he likes, wants, etc. It is very hard for me to do. I believe it's due to my past. If you take your time, with slow steps you may not be so grossed out anymore. And i agree with the previous reader, you're too young to be giving head and should try not to swallow the semen. Spit it out as soon as you have it in your mouth.
Good Luck!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 August 2010):
My guess is psychological. There is such a thing as a semen allergy but it's unbelievably rare (how would something like that survive natural selection?). My guess is something about it either creeps you out/grosses you out or bothers you about the whole idea of swallowing it. The easy solution is to either finish him by hand or spit it out. Also, you're too young to be giving blow jobs.
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