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Should I believe him that he misses me?

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Question - (15 August 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm in love with this guy, And we stopped being friends and talking a little over 2 months ago. We text very very Little. And if we do text i always start it and it's not a long conversation.

He text me yesterday and i text him back of course, And today he said he was in my neighborhood.. and wanted to hang out, So we did.. not for very long, but we did.. I know that's not much to go on..

But All I'm looking for is if he missed me..

He has caused me a lot of heartache.

And in the past he has lied to me.

Before he left we hugged and he told me he missed me.

Should I believe it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010):

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't believe him! I have been in this situation so many times and I bet you're thinking...it won't hurt, right? But it will and he will. He has done it before and now he knows he is getting away with it if you let him in again. My ex told me that he loved me, missed me and thought about me everyday...a month later I found out he had been going out with a girl for 7 months. Honestly, be careful xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010):

Believe it or not, the same has happened to me. I would talk to a mutual friend. They can ask the guy if he likes you. Thats what I did. Then if things work out, they work out. The worst he can say is no. Then you can start the healing process of the relationship or just friendship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010):

guys r confusing but he probably does miss u he jus shows it in diff ways.guys try 2 act tough and stuff but i believe he misses u but if i were u i would find sum1 else 2 mess wit and wen da old guy wants 2 hang out jus say i wit my bf or sumtiin i sure da old guy will get jealous

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (15 August 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntEssentially, this is a trust issue is it not? If he hugs you and tells you he misses you, what does he do to support that statement? If he knows you are aware of his lies, chances are he does really miss you. Why would he bother lying about that after 2 months? He was the one who wanted to hang out with you right?

I do think he misses you but I don't know either one of you so I can't be sure.

I hope that helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010):

nope, don't believe it...this guy seems to be playin you.

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A male reader, dcsk8erx607 United States +, writes (15 August 2010):

im in the same issue me and my ex girlfriend just decided to take a break and we are bout talking that much i usually start the convo and she tells me she misses me alot to but idk what to believe so ill watch this question because i would like to know also

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