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writes:Dear cupid,Me and my boyfriend have been going out since June 11th I love him very very much but he has never said to me that he loves me!! Everyone says we are cute together even before we started going out, he is great we have never had an arguement...this is why i dont want to bring up the fact that he has never said he loves me because i dont want to lose him, i have said i love you, but not to his face like on msn(i know sounds stupid) and when his friends asked me in front of him if i loved him i said yes...and they asked him but i didnt hear what he said! how should i say it to him without making an idiot of myself if he doesnt say it back??? Thanks
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reader, luvingme21  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 The same exact thing had happened to me. And I must say it REALLY did barther me. You don't have to do the same, because both our guys are different. And when I told him "I love you" it was through a text and we'd been talking for several months almost close to a year. When I told him "I love you", he didn't say it back. I was so mad and upset and shocked because I really thought he'd felt the same. Anyways months after he finally said "I love you" back. They just need time. You should actually be glad because most guys abuse those words to get what they want. But in this case our guys use them with meaning. So I say give it time, you've guys been together for only a few months.
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reader, NZLGirl  +, writes (15 August 2010):
Some guys are just afraid to admit how they feel in fear of getting hurt even if they know the other person shares the same feelings (i know its stupid and completely annoying 'for some'but just the way it is). Maybe its time you start putting yourself and your needs first even if that does mean stepping on a few toes. He may or may not feel the same way but knowing is better than not knowing right?, trust me the longer you leave it the harder its going to be.
Hope I helped :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): u should tlk 2 him about it but if u tlk 2 him in a calm voice he shouldnt get mad or leave u.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 You don't. Don't say it yet. It's only been a couple of months. He probably really likes you but he doesn't love you...yet. You can give him hints that you really love him but I don't think it's the right time to tell him face to face that you love him. Love is a big thing, something that you have to be absolutely sure of.
I hope that helps.
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