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I can't last long when I masturbate to porn!

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Question - (15 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so i'm 19 and i've always suffered from premature ejaculation right back when i started having sex at 16

I recently bought a Stamina Training Fleshlight that says it can improve your sexual stamina

The thing is, without and pictures of videos i can last a good 10 to 15 minutes but as soon as i start using it with a video it's all over in less than a minute, I need help to solve this problem.

I've recently got a girlfriend and we're sure to have sex soon and i want it to be good

Thanks all in advance

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010):

So don't use porn. Problem solved. Also I don't know how your girlfriend will feel about you having sex with another vagina, even if it is plastic, especially while watching porn. Eliminating those two things from your sex life is far better than starting out with "experience."

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (15 August 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntHow often do you masturbate to porn? If you do it too often, it will affect your stamina negatively. This is why pornography is usually described as being an unwanted form of sexual release. Pornography is very addictive because it gives you the same high you get with certain types of drugs. It is actually better that you last longer without pornography.

I hope that helps.

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A male reader, larryray2 United States +, writes (15 August 2010):

Don`t watch porn when you are with her. There are many desensitising creams you can get at any adult video store. This is all you really need to keep from popping your cork too quick.

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A male reader, blueballs United States +, writes (15 August 2010):

dude I never could either but hey at least you have a girlfriend! I'm still a virgin myself at 25 still masterbate like crazy but have somewhat learned control I can last about 45min now but with the right video & Pic's believe me I can still turn into a minute man! It suck's but from what I've been told once you have the real thing it just take's practice & control try thinking about something else totally off the wall or using a band around the base of the penis tends to hold back but be careful when you realese might go all over the place! Practice & Patience is Key & Mediation does wonder's really!

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A male reader, dcsk8erx607 United States +, writes (15 August 2010):

ok dude i know what your talking bout im 15 and me and my girlfriend of 2 years have sex alot but i suffer from pe to i mean its getting better last time we had sex i lasted a good hour but then when i watch porn i get done in less than a min to if i keep going at it the reason this happens is because when your beating off and watching porn your thinking about the feeling of sex and maybe thinking about busting which can cause you to get done fast i helped my pe by not thinking about what im doing focus your mind on something else i mean not totally but if all your thinking about is how it feels than your going to get done faster i know confusing right? but it works for me i found it on the internet a few months ago i tried to use the start stop method and other methods and they dont work so try to get your mind off the pleasure your feeling and have fun with giving your girlfriend the best orgasm she has ever had it worked for me

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