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anonymous
writes:To anyone that cares :)I'm starting to feel like my friends dont care or feel im important. It was my birthday a week ago and only my best friend (who ive been friends with for years) got me a present even though i must have brought around 10 different people presents for their birthdays earlier this year. I dont want to sound selfish or anything but i was kind of expecting them to get me a card or something seeing as i got them something.Im never really invited anywhere by them and usually i have to organise outings to make sure im invited otherwise they just forget about me. I talk to them on facebook and they are nice and say we need to meet up in the summer but they never plan anything, which i am then invited to. :| I am realllyy shy and have a problem talking to people because im scared of saying the wrong thing, therefore i am often forgotten about and most people dont even know i exist,how can i get noticed or make sure my "friends" actually care about me? Im 15 by the way, I dont really have anyone to talk to so i thought i would put it on here :) thank you to anyone that answers...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): Hi :) well let me just begin by saying i know how it feels to feel shy and how hard it is sometimes. Have you ever discussed this with any of those friends? if not i really think you should, if it's too hard in person then maybe facebook? Maybe they don't even realise how this is affecting you. I really think you should bring it up with them and if they still don't change then you should find some real friends who DO care because you deserve better than that.
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