A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi, i have been on and off with this guy for almost a year, alot of the time he walks out then comes back in.. i mind when he leaves but when he comes back im ecstatic.recently he left, but he left to be with another girl. So i started talking to another boy, the guy i have been on and off with for a year and i ended up at the same party, he completly let out his feelings for me , and how he missed me and loved me and used the other girl to make me jelous... the only reason why he ever went for the other girl was because of a competition he had with a guy friend. one he got stuck with... I still love this guy deep down even though this all happened. However this other guy i have been talking to asked me out on a date. I dont feel right for going as I am still talking to my ex. My ex wants me back really bad. This new guy is super nice, however he lives a little far and i wouldnt see him much. where as my ex goes to the same school as me but im not sure how much he would see me at school..HELP
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): GO WITH THE NICE GUY!! I would rather travel a thousand miles to see a decent guy than have to go to school with a boy everyday who is going to mess me around again!! xx
A
female
reader, queen14 +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Hi there, well my best advice is don't deal with it um sorry I no its hard 2 move on but look he's stupid!! He dissd u for playing stupid games with his friends, he didn't care bout ur feelings,he's not gonna change any time soon he's immature wait 4 a man not a boy that loves n respects u 4 who u r cuz not all guys r jerks... Good luck
...............................
A
male
reader, Universe Man +, writes (15 August 2010):
You're saying that because you're "talking to" your ex, you shouldn't pursue this other guy? Why let him have that kind of control over you? You're in control here. You've got two guys pursuing you. There's nothing stopping you from hanging out with both of them if you want to, as long as you're up front about it. You know what the old guy is all about, you should definitely go out with the new guy and find out more about him.
...............................
|
