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writes:I met a man at my old work place that tried to be very helpful when I was experiencing some really hard times at work. It resulted in me leaving without a job to go too. During the time that I was there I noticed the way he stared at me but thought nothing off it as I was in a relationship at the time/ I thought it was more to do with his knowledge of my problems.As time went by I noticed how he stared at me and would hold his gaze with my eyes for quite a while. In meetings 1-1 he would look be up and down. Cuting a long story story there is strong chemistry between us andhe starting trying to ask me personal questions.I have had some rotten relationships over the years. I have struggled as a single mum of 3 for most of the time, graduated from university, own two houses and a car, do not sleep around.Do you think I have found my Prince Charming? I never thought I would meet someone like him. He is totally opposite to the usual kind of guys I have been out you. He is very calm and ambitions and very straight lace. I am mixed race and he is white. I have never been attracted to a white guy before - to me he is so different. I just dont know how to move the relationship on now. I plan to phone him next week to arrange an excuse to meet and I may try to tell him somehow about my attraction. I cant stop thinking about him.Any advice welcomed
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Well, if you've had experience with rotten men, you should be cautious. By all means, call this man, meet with him but do so armed with the awareness of possibility. People change and they often do with the things around them. If you were in a relationship with this man, consider that he may just be another rotten man. Do not assume this man is the one is all I'm saying. Just be aware of what might happen. Good luck!
I hope that helps.
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