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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My bf loves me very much an me too.... i'm 100% sure he loves me and cares for me... he doesn't hide things with me....it has been for 4 months we are still together. We have never fought, never argued, we both are emo... if he's sad,i'll be SAD. I was the first 2 kiss him... i still remember it...we went tomato red after that kiss... well every day when we met, we were kissing.... now we stop. My bf told me that when we kiss…mean my touch….affect his studies he told me he wants me very much… he wnt 2 control this physical emotion he gets, he told me ”nelly u know my honey… I can’t leave u koz I love u more than my life, no girl in this world can replace u, I want to kiss u, really, I respect u but when I’m reading, doing my school homework, I think about the beautiful kiss we shared. I always think about this, about you.. ur beautiful eyes ur blush cheek, but honey you know that next year I’ll compete to have college scholarship. i don’t want that our relation affect our studies, that is why I asked u to stop this for at least 1 and half years, I really want to have the scholarship, u are my heart baby, I love u more than myself, forgive me.”Then we stop completely, we don’t kiss, we don’t hug and that makes me upset.. but helpless koz I can wait but I miss the kiss. I really want him to come toward me and kiss me passionately which we’ve did just one time.I want help.. can someone tell me how can he kiss me... want 2 kiss me more. it’s difficult….:(((
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reader, Fefi +, writes (16 August 2010):
yay, an emo!! i thought i was the only one :(
i know you're not getting much out of your relationship, but ur man has a point; now is the time to focus on studies so that after you can both live a successful life together :)
if you truly love each other, then there is nothing to worry about,your love for each other will last the year and a half of patient waiting.
as an emo, respect what he is initially doing for YOU..
trust me, the wait will be worth it..
tell me how things go ;)
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reader, LittleAlfie +, writes (15 August 2010):
Practical answer: Draw more attention to your mouth in subtle ways. Biting your lip or touching your mouth or even eating something in a casual way.
That being said, emo boys are complex in nature, and there may be something heavy weighing on his mind. Try talking to him about it. Without adding your own personal agenda. You may find he opens up a lot easier. Both with what's on his mind and with his mouth.
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