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writes: hi, ok this is kind of complicated but i hope you bear with me. last year i met up with a guy i hadn't seen for a long time, i knew him from school. well we met up and one thing led to another and we started sleeping together, at first it was just "fun" but as these things usually end up, one person ends up feeling more than the other, which in this case was me. i told him how i felt and he basically said he didn't want anything "serious" of course i was hurt and felt stupid but i pretended i was ok with it and carried on our "casual" thing. well, a few months ago he told me he'd met someone but still wants to be friends, i again pretended i was ok with that as i didn't want to lose him completely, so anyway a few weeks after that i get a text in the middle of the night saying something like "we need to meet up soon ;)" and he seems to have gone back to the way it was before he was with her, when i asked why he was flirting if he was seeing someone, he said he didn't mean it and just wants to be friends. we met up for a drinks as he said he wanted to talk as friends, well anyway and the end of the evening he was touching me etc... and basically we ended up sleeping together,i feel terrible and really stupid. He text me the next day saying he was glad we are friends, which confuses me since we had sex the night before! can someone please help me with this as it's ruining my life :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): he's acting like a controlling freak. you go ahead and date another guy but still be friends with him( without having sex). just let him burn up a little bit. he thinks he can use you. when he sees you with someone else he will go away. and trust me he's not a nice guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's also started asking who i'm dating all the time. No idea why he'd care if i'm seeing anybody.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is when he told me he had a new gf he said he wasn't going to cheat on her but can we still be friends? I feel like a fool, and since it happened he said he doesn't remember what happened, blaming the alcohol. I told him i'm dating somebody and now everytime i talk to him on fb etc... he asks about the guy and do i see this new guy as bf material? why does he seem so interested in who i'm dating if he has a girlfriend?
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