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writes:Okay boys and girls, it's me, Ive been split since Dec from my babys mom, you know the one who got infatuated with her boss, then cut my throat! but after a rebound, and a girl I really liked, who I got nervous and broke up with, I find myself not angry at my ex, all of the sudden out of nowhere one day, I just woke up, and what she did didnt make me want to kill her, I actually felt zero resentment or anger, it blew my fucking mind, I actually just felt like I missed the things we did, and how the good times we did have werent just good, it was almost like magic, and I havent really felt that way since then, but I was just curious if she needed any extra help with school clothes for our daughter this year, let me ad a sub story here, she began fucking her boss, he's gone 3 weeks of the month, and she got promoted into another job, none of the people she worked with on her way up(many of whom are our mutual friends)many of them have told me here and there, what a bitch she is and how much she's changed, almost like she is a different person, she was very sweet and everyone loved her! but I texted her to see the school clothes thing, and just to ask how she was doing, never responded, so i couldnt get ahold of my daugher, so I texted her mom, she answered in one word answers, I asked if everything was okay, and she told me "I fuck with her head to much and she didnt feel comfortable talking to me" im dumbfounded, we never really fought that much, we always could be civil to each other, it's just not like her to act that way, and really I dont understand how she could just be such a bitch, I mean I shouldnt want to be civil to her, since she's the slut, not me, but I just dont feel angry and dont have a whole life to waste being angry at someone I loved so much, is it really possible for a human being to be so soulless and heartless, that for the sake of her daughter, she couldnt just act grown up, and decide for our daughters sake, we can put the bullshit aside and at least get along for our daughers sake? not to mention, she really has no reason to be that way towards me, I was merely the idiot who took her bullshit, and got my thoat cut, I just need someone to tell me im sane for thinking this way, and to make sure if I am thinking off track, you guys put me on track, thanks!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Did u literally get ur throat cut? Well if u did thats impressive ur forgiving her, my hat off to you. I doubt I could do that. Ur def to the stage of forgiving and ready to move on to some type of amendment. Which is fantastic bc I think parents sometimes lose site of how their jacked up relationship or lack there of can affect their children. Im surprised she isnt taking this "get out of jail free card" you think she would and work on a friendship with ur daughter can have a normal as possible life with both parents. Since, she isnt at that time in her life to work something out I would be civil, the bigger person here and just make an effort in your daughter's life to make it the best you can.
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