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writes: hello guys i had a strange dream last night which it was abut me, my older sister, my boyfriend, and other people, been chased by a gang of men and then i was separated from my my sister, and my boyfriend so the gang caught me and shot me on my lower stomach however i survived but the doctors told me that i would never have kids then i woke up.what does this mean beacuse me and my boyfriend we planning of having kids next year. plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your time this reali helped me and made me relax
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Basically a dream is just a dream - it does not "mean" anything in real life. It is believed that we dream because the brain cannot process all the information it receives in one day, therefore when you shut your eyes and close your mind off from new inputs, it has time to process everything from the day.
Often dreams are random, and mean nothing at all. They can also be representations of fears in your life - so clearly you are thinking about having children therefore you are afraid of being infertile. It does not mean that you ARE infertile, it just means that is one of your fears.
There are hundreds of websites out there that will provide you information on interpreting your dream, but I dont believe in any of them to be honest. The only accurate way to interpret your dreams is to see a specialist psychologist who has trained in this area, but even then they still wont see you over something so trivial as this dream. They use dream analysis to provide insight into mental illness, and presuming you are not mentally ill then there really is no reason to worry any further about this dream.
And one final thing - dreaming of being chased is one of the most common dreams out there, it has generally been agreed that we dream of this because we have anxiety in our lives, or that we are literally afraid of being chased in real life. So again, this is very common and not some indicator of something more serious in your life.
So dont worry, there is nothing wrong with you and your dreams dont mean anything significant. They are just your fears and anxieties playing out in your head at night, it does not mean they are real.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Hey :)
Dreams are a weird thing. Scientists have discovered we have seven or eight dreams in one night, but when we wake up and try to remember what we dreamt about, we kind of squish all seven/eight into one weird dream that seems to make no sense!
It's completely natural to dream about losing something or someone important to you. You probably dreamt about these people because you see them a lot or think about them all the time.
Why don't you and your boyfriend go to see your Doctor and get some tests done, just to make sure all systems are go so that you can start your family when you're ready?
Good luck!
xxx
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