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writes:Hi guys,Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk to her mother. She doesnt care what you say to her. So forget about reasoning with her. I tried that. Its sad because whenever we got together somewhere, we would have to go into a room upstairs, or the basement, away from everyone, or even outside to get away from her mom, and spend time together. She would always WATCH us. It really annoyed me. Anyways, my girlfriend just got a cell phone, which is great news. She also made an email. Now we can keep in touch until we meet again!! She cries and cries. She told me she hates her mom. I assured her that we will be together again. Until then, we will email, call and text each other. (Secretively) We both want her mom to remain clueless. We dont want her to know that we are talking to one another. Technology is our only hope. If she finds out, then its all over. Her mom allowed her to make an email. Knowing her mother, I have a feeling that she will be reading her emails daily. A friend of mine suggested that I make a fake email, so we can talk and she can tell her mom that its a friend from back home. I want to call her, but I'm afraid of my name and number showing up on her cell phone bill. The bill goes straight to her parents. What do you guys think about me calling her and talking to her from different places. That way I'll be all over, and her mom wont be able to know its me. If you guys know of any secret methods of talking to each other without getting caught, please let me know!My friend also suggested texting her from my itouch. Thats not a phone, so my name shouldnt show up on her bill. Thats what I need right now. Suggestions, secret methods, words of hope. We are both deeply in love, and we will not let her mother keep us apart. Technology is too advanced. (Honestly, her mother is sort of 'technology retarded' Thats were we have the advantage. She doesnt know how to use ipods, or many features on a computer. But she CAN read. If you guys can give me some inspiration about using technology to keep our hearts together and stuff like that, it would mean A LOT. Any other secret methods of communication are welcomed!! Please! Thank you everyone!!! I promised her I will text her goodnight every single night. I will tuck her in without being there. I love her with all my heart.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 You know good old fashioned letter writing with paper and pen could work here too. You just need to write a letter and post it to a post office in another state with forwarding directions to your girlfriends house. Then when the letter arrives it doesn't have your handwriting or state stamp. There's just something about receiving a handwritten letter. Very romantic.
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reader, sassy_2012 +, writes (16 August 2010):
if you block your number with *67 it will not show up on bill thats a advantage and unless she looks online to see who she has been texting then you should be fine. i wish i could find the love that you two have but this is my advice i hope it works for ya
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