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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met my husband 3 years before we got married, he loved me so much, everybody knows that, now that i have a baby he doesn't care whether I'm happy or not, we lost our intimacy, he dosn't spend time with me, he hardly takes me out the way he use to, i do every thing i could, text him, email him, cook for him, clean the house, he never appreciates me, he comes home late, he questions me on every money he gave me and he goes out spending money for girls. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): OK, you are feeling decidedly unloved and unappreciated. You cook, clean, you are a mother... all important tiring stuff and you deserve to be respected.
Having said that, you say you text him, you email him...well do you make a move on him? Do you tell him you Do you dress sexy and try seducing him? Do you make the first move and do things you know he enjoys? Do you tell him how much you find him sexy and how much you appreciate him? For guys, there is a strong connection between intimacy and sex. He may well feel that despite all you are doing that you have stopped appreciating him.
Sometimes without meaning to, we ask for intimacy in ways that make it a job... we need to remember how we were before we got married and put some of that spark back into the way we treat our man...
If all this doesn't work... well there is something deeper going on.
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