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writes:My boyfriend once broke my trust and met his ex behind my back. It's made me insecure which he says he realises is his fault. But I heard he made a joke about my insecurity to a mate. Now what am I supposed to think?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Not a good remark to make. He cant have much respect for you if he can even make such a comment.
Speaking as a guy, I need trust in a stable relationship and would never break that trust equally as I give trust.
Your boyfriend has his own agenda. How long have you been together? If its more than a few months he should know if he wants to comitt to your relationship.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 He doesn't seem very respectful. In fact, he seems a bit immature. He needs to know that this is something that shouldn't be joked about, even behind your back. Why don't you tell him this? Have you ever raised the issue with him?
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 He has no respect towards you. He seems to have a big mouth, because making jokes about issues of any kind in your relationship is plain dumb. If he said to his mate that you have trust issues and you need help, then it wouldn't have been a problem, he was simply asking for support. But from that, to make jokes about it, he simply does not respect you.
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