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writes:I am 18, and my boyfriend is 21. We are both young, as you can see, but it seems like he is rarely in the mood for sex. I thought for his age his libido would be higher, but it so much lower than mine. I'm almost always in the mood and waiting for him.It's usually me who has to initiate sex. During the course of our relationship, he was only initiated sex once. The rest of the time it has always been me that has made the first move, and 80% of those times he physically pushes my hands away, claiming to not be in the mood. When we do make love, nearly a quarter the times he ejaculates prematurely. I have never had an orgasm, and he is the first person I've ever had sex with.Him and I are avid video game players, but it feels like he uses video games sometimes as an excuse not to have sex with me. He'll play for hours and hours, even though I constantly tell him how horny I am or how in the mood I am for him, and he'll make playful comments back, but he'll keep playing until midnight and then claim to be too tired for lovemaking.Him and I are perfect in every other way in our relationship, and I love him VERY much. I have never felt the way I feel about him, and I don't see this ruining our relationship, but I feel that I have a right to satisfaction.In short, is there any way I can naturally increase his libido? I don't want to humiliate him by suggesting pills or therapy. Are there any activities we can do together to help increase his sex drive and prevent him from coming too early?Thank you for any help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): don't talk to him about therapy or pills but do tell him that you don't feel satisfied.
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reader, orionskarma  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 buy a vibrator, some warming lube, a cute nightie and a porno any guy i know that would drive them nuts plus if ur watching the tv he cant play games
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): He has surely low testosterone.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 You could try lingerie that ought to get him in the mood. See what his preferences are. I'm concerned that he plays video games for extended periods of time. Does he get the proper amount of nutrients everyday? Does he stay hydrated? All these affect libido.
I hope that helps.
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