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writes:I'm 17 and pregnant with triples. When I first found out I was pregnant, I was really excited. I know teenage motherhood is nothing to applaud, but I had graduated earlier, just became a Respiratory Therapist in my home-town while taking College Courses and High-school courses at the same time. So, I thought I was really getting my life together.But, when I found out I was having triples. I kind of became an emotional wreck. My Great Grandparents had triples, My Grandma and my too Great Aunts, so the doctor told me it was probably genetic considering it passes down generations and usually skips one or two.Anyways, ever since then I've become so distraught wondering how the heck I'm going to pull this off. I said no to Abortion and Adoption which the doctor suggested, because I know babies are a blessing. I've been looking after my little cousins all my life!I've stocked up on a bunch of stuff.. way more then I need actually. I have three cribs, and a million diapers and a closet full of clothes. I'm having 2 girls and a boy by the way. I'm not really a part of my Mother's life, since Her and My dad divorced she hasn't really wanted anything to do with us so she's out of the picture. All I have is My Dad, and My Ex Boyfriend (We're friends not together, but he's supportive but FREAKED OUT!) and My Aunts and My grandma but they live hours away from me.Just looking for some moral support. Anybody have any advice? stories? Did anyone else have triples or twins or we're even young mothers? How will I do it emotionally?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): Oh WOW, I bet that was a shock but as they are in your family, it was always a possibility.
Listen, you have made a great start with getting the things your need, and no it's not going to be easy, but from what I have read I would say you are going to be just fine. Take all the help you are offered, don't be proud, thinking you can do it all on your own. See if you can find any organisations for help with people with triplets.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): Wish you well, you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders to get through it!! xx
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reader, orionskarma +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Congratulations!!!
I wont lie to you its hard, really hard. But after its all said and done its worth it. The first time you see them smile, their first steps so on and so forth make it all worth while.
When mine were born their father denied paternity his exact words were I only make singles... wow did i ever pick a winner there! but thru the help of my local womens center, food bank, and my employer i made it thru with my isanity intact, i had to wonder some days. It took my parents along time to come around to the idea of being grandparents but they eventually did, they even babysit now and again.
Dont forget to look into your local resources for support,if someone offers to help let them, get as much sleep as you can and dont be afraid to let them cry for 5 minutes while you take a breather.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): To me you sound like a very responsible young woman. Of course it wont be easy, but maybe the father will help you. It would be hard to take care of three babies at the same time. I wish you the best of luck :]
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