A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I recently heard from a friend that my ex used to call me insane to his friends when we were together.I am a little odd in the way i do things but i wouldnt say i'm insane? And i used to argue with him over things that didnt matter to him but mattered to me. But i don't think that makes me insane either?So my question here is to the guys.What makes a woman come across insane?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): To make a crazy female use the following in generous measures:
1. Insecurity which leads to questioning about bf's whereabouts every minute of the day
2. Insecurity which leads to snooping through phones, emails, letters, boxers.. etc
3. Showing up for a surprise visit. At 4am.
4. Threatening to kill herself if he leaves.
5. Waiting for him in the dark. The element of surprise is only fun when cake and/or diamonds are involved... nothing else.
6. Setting up fake myspace/facebook/bebo accounts to pretend to be a hot girl and adding the bf to see if he bites. this is called entrapment and its a NO NO.
7. Wearing orange shoes. Now thats just plain insane.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 August 2010):
When she breaks his heart. Usually men who call exes insane do so as a way to not seem "pathetic" for being dumped (it's not really pathetic). I was talking to several guys who were like, yeah my ex was totally insane. She was always trying to control me and so clingy, oh man she was crazy. Turns out, clingy was her calling him like once a week, controlling was asking him to not go out drinking with hot girls every night, and crazy was just her leaving him. I've rarely heard a guy call an ex crazy for any legitimate reason.
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