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writes:okay so i am in love. absolutely 100% in love. i'm 15. now before you start furiously typing telling me that i'm to young to be in love, know that i have raised myself. my dad walked out and my mom works when i'm home. i raised not only me but my baby brother. anyway, the problem is that he is 20 years old. i've only told my cousin and she hates it. she thinks he'll try to get me to have sex and i know he won't because i have been friends with him for two years and we've liked each other since we met. now obviously we aren't dating because of the age gap, but he still loves me and he openly admits that to friends and family. he doesnt care about age all that matters is that we love each other. he said he'll wait till i'm 18 to do anything sexual with me, one because he can go to jail and two because he doesn't want to pressure me into doing anything i'm not comfortable with but i want to have sex with him. We fool around a little but nothing more than leading off 1st base. i want him, all of him, and i dont know how to approach the whole situation. should i just come out and tell him i'm ready to take the next step or what? what if he turns me down? i'm just really confused. help is greatly appreciated. thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@MatureLady excuse me? i have sense. i was just curious to know if i should pursue a sexual relationship with him before i turn 18. there was no need to be rude about it. i came here for advice not to be bitched at by you because you don't think i have sense. & he can touch me. he just cant have sex with me. there is no law for dating a minor only for having sex with one.
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reader, Mature Lady  +, writes (16 August 2010):
Age is only a number but you are heading for serious trouble with this boy and he is going to be in bigger trouble for touching you at all at your age as you are a minor,what are you thinking of by trying to encourage him to take things further with you when you know he will be prosecuted if found out.There is plenty of time for you to have full sex when you are old enough to have it.I hope this boy has more sense than you have at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): Personally, i think if you believe he's the one for you and you are the one for him, then wait till your 18 before you continue and if he really does love you as much as he says he does he will be willing to wait, from my experience. But if he's just in it for the sex, he'll probably just allow you after a few months of no action and then you'll see just how lucky you have been/
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