A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: ok..this guy say s that he loves me..like really crazy about me..but i dont understand..he never does nething to make me feel tht he likes me other than saying so...He goes on calling me on the phone non-stop..with out really being concerned that i may not be feeling well.or i might be sleeping if I dont answer the phone..or some what busy with something..worst of all..he hardly ever pays..he offers and I'm pretty fast at taking out the cash myself..I'm an egoist..but i would like the guy to say "no take it back..you dont need to give"..i dont mind giving..but i would like if he was concerned..but thats not the question..its just that i dont feel he really loves me..its more of a liking of some sorts...please help??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (15 August 2010):
Sounds like a self-loving egotist from what you've said, but we don't have much to go on.
A
female
reader, Chippy2 +, writes (15 August 2010):
I dont think this guy loves you or likes you - I think he loves himself only!
Read what your wrote out loud to yourself. He doesnt respect your time he makes calls all the time, he says he loves you like crazy but does not show it in ANY way.
He doesnt pay at all when you are out - allowing you to pay!
Yeh, he says he loves you like crazy cause you are boosting his ego.
I would cut this guy off and move on. Your gut is telling you the truth in my opinion.
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