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writes:hey everyone.im almost 16, and have been with my current boyfriend for 4 months.latley things have been abit rocky: so let me explain.i have been out with him before, but ended things because he was always really paranoid, but in October i starteed to develop feelings for him, but at the time he had feelings for this girl Lucy*, and he had no idea how i felt.But then about a week before christmas he asked me out and obviously I said yes, the morning later i woke up to a txt saying "im sorry, i do really like you, but i have feelings for Lucy and I dont think it's fair on you, so just friends ye?" I was pretty much gutted. But then .. in Janurary we become really close, and again he asked me out and again i Said yes :L.Now about a month ago he's been commenting Lucy with stuff like "you should come over, my mam loves you more than me ;)xxx " + and about 3 weeks ago, he was talking to my bestfriend saying he thought that lucy was fit+goodlooking, and I asked him about it, but he totally denied it to me, and amitted it to a few of his friends. Then I've also been hearing that he's cheated on me with a number of girls (his friends shout these things out), but yet he ALLWAYS denies it.the most recent thing was last night, when I signed in on msn, and his friend asked me "have you been out?" i replied "yes why?" then he was like "thought so, with adam wasn't you?" and i was like "no I havent seen him all day, I was ment to, but I didnt feel like it after last nights arguments" then he was like "oh cause me and scott rung him and he said he was on the train to see you :$". Prior to this, in the week he was heared saying to scott 'that he has plans to meet up with Lucy' . do you think this is where he went to see her last night? Is that why he lied to his friends about where he was going because he didnt want me to find out? Or am i just being paranoid about everything? The thing is I wouldunt mind if he went to see her, as long as he didnt lie about where he was going, because it makes it abit more suspicious ): .your thoughts?please no sarcy comments :|
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (4 May 2009):
Yes, He's cheating on you! I think you should dump him. It might be hard for you but you deserve better and don't need to be cheated on. You're still young so you'll find someone who will respect you and won't hurt you.
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reader, Cat_87 +, writes (3 May 2009):
 Hiya!
You are so young and you clearly don't/ shouldn't have time 4 this guy. I say sack him off and go find someone better, or even better than that sack him off and enjoy being a 16 yr old girl. This might be the most important thing 2 u right now but its a tiny drop in a great big ocean. If u don't listen 2 any advice listen 2 this, never let a man walk all over you, if you ave a gut feeling/ proof he is cheating get rid he is not worth it! Show him u are strong and trust me he will be the great big loser in the end, bcos if he cheats his way through life he will end up the lonely one because no woman will trust him!
Get shut girl and enjoy being 16!
x x x hope that helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Either way, cheating or not, this guy sounds like a moron. I think you were better off without him, if he can finish it and start it again so easily. Iv'e had this for 2 years straight, and I'm only 17 :/ My guy's always on about Alice or Devon or Jess or Jasmine... its so upsetting. Especially when they leave him messages saying 'I've got the house to myself.All night' or 'Danny baby!' It makes it obvious that he's been flirting with them too. Ditch him; he's too big for his boots and not good enough for you!
He's already checking up on who your'e with, even though he's the one thats more likely to cheat!
I did'nt mind my guy ignoring me at college whilst he goes and chats to Alice, I got over it, it made him happy, so why should i complain? But the minute she went round to his, he tried it on with her. My trust has been really rattled.
Best of luck chick, you deserve better.
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reader, jellybeans +, writes (3 May 2009):
You should stop being denial!! Yes, he is cheating on you, cheating with a capital C!!! Where did you even get the idea that you were in a relationship? To me it seems he is just playing you and using you as a hollaback-girl.You may not want to believe in it and I think you may even feel all your friends are lying to you because they are jealous of your relationship. I had a friend like that. She was 16 at that time, and all her friends told her her bf at that time was flirting with girl A,B,C,D etc. but she would argue with that guy and believed in what he said. She even had a fight with one of those girls, called her bitch, slut because the guy had always been telling my frd it was that girl who flirted with him first.The truth is, the guy was dating both of the at the same time. The girl who had a fight with my frd became his official gf shortly after my frd dumped that guy..and of course, she had to deal with her bf's cheating issue. =)
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