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anonymous
writes:I am really sad and depress now. My bf and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. The reason of our break up was because I lied to him a lot. I was hurt on my past relationships and turned out not wanting to trust men. I met him and wanted to give it a try, but it was still hard. That's the reason why I lied to him so much for the last 6 months. When he first learned that I lied, we saw each other and we kinda made it up. Then it bothers him again and it became the main reason of our arguments for a week. Then the same day we officially broke up, I went online to find a person who I can share my story with. It turned out I met another guy who is way better than him. The guy called me up everyday but I didn't feel like talking to him at all. I met my bf (now ex) again and the guy called, my ex got so jealous....I ended up stop talking to that guy because I still miss my ex a lot... The problem is we saw each other again yesterday and we still kiss each other... He told me he misses me so much everyday. Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): really i was going to scold you for having multiple hearts running at the same time. But in truth i agree with Gina's advice. Go and talk to someone about this.
you need to decide if you want him or not. Yes ex's have a special place, because we have shared with them. But there is a reason they are ex.s, because they didn't meet all our requirements in some way.
work out why you were lying and then go and talk with the right person or just on your own to a counsellor.
Hugs star.x.
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