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writes:ok, so theres this boy i've known about for 9 months now. i told him i liked him in january, and he was cool with it. i really like him. he told me last month that he liked me too! he sent me a text message this one night asking "what would you say if i asked you out, im curious" i told him, that "i would say yes? i only like you. but thats a whole different story."BUT he never really asked me. we're always together at school. but where do you go from there? boy likes girl, girl likes boy! should i make the first move?or is it just not meant to be. he's very confusing...please help me out.
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reader, turtle86  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 x] Guys at our age are as scared as you are if not more. There is always the pressure of us having to do it. If he likes you take a chance it and ask him. Most guys think confidence is pretty hot so that will help.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (4 May 2009):
 Make the first move. Life is too short waiting for some young pup of a boy to get the courage to ask you out. Sometimes you have to make things happen for yourself.
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reader, Polite Fellow  +, writes (4 May 2009):
haha cute, its a joint effort. lets face it you're both terrified. my first conversation of this type was on MSN a few years back. it went"i used to fancy you in school""why didn't you tell me?""i don't know, didn't think you'd be interested i guess""why wouldn't i be""i don't know, to be honest i still kinda fancy you now""really?""yeah, i hope you don't mind""no, of course not, its really flattering""thing is i want to ask you out but don't know if i should""are you asking me out there?""i don't know, should i be?""do you like me or not?""yeah alot, but would you say yes if i did""maybe, ask me out!""will you go out with me?"[long pause]"yes"Been with her ever since, 5 long happy years love her to bits. so he may just be a complete peanut like me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): I think you should totally make the first move! None of you are in the dark about the others' feelings, I bet he's either shy or nervous about his first move. You both know that you like each other, and since you guys are both in your early teens it's completely normal for boys to be nervous to make the first move.
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