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writes:Hi, my boyfriend has problems with delayed ejaculation, he can always please himself but very rarely gets to orgasm through sex. he also seems to have a very unsensitive penis, he says he cant really feel anything, even fellatio, I think the problems all maybe emotional, he really has problems expressing his emotions, does anyone have any advice please?!
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reader, malum424  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 lotions and baby oils well help return sensitivity, by softing skin at the top of the penis. Grape seed oils is the best for this. It's cheap about $5 a gallon and and sfe if any get into his litle pe hole at the top.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Is he on an SSRI antidepressant medication? I've experienced similar delayed ejaculation and seemingly reduced sensitivity when on an SSRI (Zoloft) for depression. When I switched to Wellbutrin, the problem went away completely. MOD NOTE: Please speak to your doctor about any change in medication.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 Some men masturbate to roughly. Observe the way he does it himself versus your own technique. They don't call it "beating your meat" or "spanking the monkey" for nothing.
If he abstains from masturbation for a while, chances are the sensitivity will return. If he really can't feel anything at all (no sensation of touch) then their might be something more severe going on. Consult a doctor if it is more then him just having been to rough on his own.
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