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*emoteControl
writes:I'm having difficulty in labelling my sexuality for others to understand. Whilst it doesn't matter to me, I can't find a category I can define myself by and was hoping that others with more knowledge or an unbiased view could help.I'm male, I've had relationships with women only and kissed a few guys, and whilst I adore women, I have no problems with thinking about guys. I don't classify myself as bi necessarily as I being in a relationship with a guy doesn't appeal to me and doing anything sexually with a just a guy and no-one else doesn't appeal either.However, being with a woman and a man, either a couple or an additional man in a relationship I have with a woman doesn't bother me when it comes to thinking about doing things sexually with him and her. In that circumstance only then does the thought of doing anything from kissing to fellatio have any appeal.Can anyone help with labelling in any way so that people can better understand?
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reader, RemoteControl +, writes (5 May 2009):
RemoteControl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to everyone who answered. I don't care for labels myself, but to summarize it for others rather than explain things in detail it helps to be able to have one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Sounds like you are bi-curious (as in curious about doing something with another guy more than outright just wanting to). Why do you need a label so people understand? People don't need to know you have a very limited interest in men, unless for some reason it is something you want to broadcast to everyone?
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reader, dazedbymaxxie +, writes (4 May 2009):
after reading that carefully i think you are basically bi-curious meaning you love the opposite sex but are willing and see no harm in exploring your own sex xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): I agree with the first 2 answers, if you are willing to blow another guy even with a woman present, you are probably bi.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 May 2009):
You don't need a label.
It's not a tick box exercise. This is why gay people use a rainbow, because sexuality is different for everyone.
Hardly anyone is 100% gay straight or bi.
So go with percentages.
You're 80% for women and 20% for men. Or whatever. If you need to go into detail to explain it then say you want both for sex, but prefer women for longer term relationships.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (3 May 2009):
 I still don't see why you need to pin a label on yourself. But if you really must have a neon sign I would go for almost bi.
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